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14 Mar
2020

Your Moment on the Couch

  • March 14, 2020
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 2,094 views

By – Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. Fall down seven times. Get up eight. – Japanese proverb. When I was 20, I thought I was invincible – until I broke my back. After poorly landing a back handspring and cracking my L1 vertebra, my life changed forever. But for the good! I spent a month home..

21 Feb
2020

8 Ways to Get More Money from Colleges

  • February 21, 2020
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 921 views

By – Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. We’re frequently asked if we can help identify scholarship opportunities for our families. While we happily forward on options that we serendipitously find, it’s nearly impossible to comb through the various databases out there to discover scholarships that perfectly fit each student. Some of the requirements are just too..

08 Jan
2020

What to Do When You Get Deferred

  • January 8, 2020
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,291 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. “Let us, then, be up and doing, with a heart for any fate; still achieving, still pursuing, learn to labor and to wait.” – Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. Getting deferred can be demoralizing. You’ve waited months hoping and wishing for an acceptance, only to find out that you have to wait..

28 Sep
2019

An Ivy Is Not for You If….

  • September 28, 2019
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,861 views

By – Victoria Tillson Evans Time and again, students insist that they want to go a top-tier college. The prestige has a way of luring many to apply. While thousands of students have the academic credentials to get in, they lack some of the key personality traits that make an elite college a good choice...

14 Jul
2019

How to Get Better Grades in Less Time

  • July 14, 2019
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 984 views

By Paul Rivas, Study Skills Specialist at SMITH RIVAS Study Skills & Academic coaching. Middle school through grad school, figuring out how to earn better grades in less time is the key to thriving in school and life. Only by getting better grades in less time will you have more time to do cool stuff..

11 Apr
2019

It’s Not Just a Letter, It’s a Relationship: Overcoming the Anxiety of Asking for a Letter of Recommendation

  • April 11, 2019
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 4,245 views

By Robert Yates I recently spoke with a student who was unsure of how to ask a teacher for a letter of recommendation.   This anxiety is common, but it can be alleviated by understanding that the strongest letters of recommendation reflect a strong teacher-student relationship over time.When I said this, the student looked confused...

15 Feb
2019

How to Get an Internship

  • February 15, 2019
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,495 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. Each year, more and more students are asking about how to get a summer internship. While these opportunities are frequently competitive, they’re worth shooting for if you’re genuinely serious about your academic and/or professional ambitions, and are aiming for a highly selective college. To help you figure out your options..

11 Feb
2019

Dissimulations, Half Truths, and Outright Lies

  • February 11, 2019
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,195 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. There’s a new arms race, and you’re caught in the middle. It’s obviously no longer the Cold War. Instead, it’s the college admissions war. Nearly all colleges are vying for a top spot in the rankings, and part of rising up involves getting as many students to apply as possible...

05 Nov
2018

First Impress, Then Persuade

  • November 5, 2018
  • Distinctive College Consulting
  • 1,254 views

By Victoria Tillson Evans, Ph.D. A student recently asked me, “When are we getting to my essays?” She was clearly tired of discussing her activities. This wasn’t the first time I’ve heard this question, so I reassured her, “Soon.” She then raised a quizzical eyebrow. I realized I needed to explain further and continued, “Your..